First things first. The concept of being sexy is subjective, and it really depends on the person. It's not about wearing revealing clothes or having a "banging body" as dictated by society's beauty standards. Being sexy is a *vibe*. It's the aura that you give. If you want to learn more about the concept of being effortlessly sexy without wearing revealing clothes. read on!
Understand that it's all the mind.
Yes, you must have a mindset first that you look good and self-confidence will follow. It's okay if you have body insecurities. Maybe you can start practicing a body neutrality mindset: It's a school of thought wherein you're not "forced" to love your body. It's looking at your body from a neutral perspective. You're acknowledging what your body can do.
(Plus, it is helping you survive a global pandemic, so you gotta give your body some credit!)
Now that we've got the inner work covered, let's move forward to the effortless ~aesthetic~ tips!
How To Look And Feel Sexy Without Showing Too Much Skin
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Follow a minimalist skincare routine.
Again, we don't want to try too hard. A simple three-step (or two-step!) can grant you a healthy complexion as long as you're consistent with it. Take note of this regimen breakdown: Cleanser, treat (serum or spot treatment), and moisturize. Don't ever skip sunscreen in the morning, too!
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Go for lightweight makeup.
We're all about looking effortless, so wearing minimal makeup is key. Go for a skin tint to even out your complexion and wear blush for your cheeks. Fill in your eyebrows using an eyebrow pen or brow gel for a feathery, bushy look. For your eyes, curl the lashes and apply mascara. Then, for your lips, choose between a tinted lip balm, lip stain, or MLBB lipstick!
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Wear clothes in the right size.
Whether you're working with a classic wardrobe or you're into trends, it's important that you get these items in the right size. Don't mind the size labels—how the fabric clings to your body is more crucial.
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Choose the right underwear.
Wearing the right bra and panties in the *correct* size will make your clothes look so much on you. There is no need to buy expensive stuff, BTW. Just get a brassiere in the right band + cup size and seamless panties (to avoid VPL). If you want to skip wearing a bra, that's totally fine, too. Whatever that makes you feel comfortable in is fine!
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Mind your posture.
Looking confident relies a lot on how you carry yourself, and this includes maintaining good posture. Refrain from slouching and relax while being mindful of how your body moves. (Here's our complete guide to good posture 101.)
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Practice your best smize.
To look sexy in photos, you need to master the smize, aka the smiling gaze. Here's how you can do it: Relax your shoulders, close your eyes, and take a deep breath. you can squint your eyes a little and smile with your lips pursed together. You can practice this in the mirror to see how else you can improve your smize.
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Spritz a perfume that helps express your vibe or personality.
The cherry on top: A sexy fragrance! By definition, seductive scents have oriental or musky notes, but we're not here to play rules. Choose that bottle that helps express your vibe or personality—your signature scent.
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