The big 30 is a milestone birthday everyone anticipate, whether with trepidation or excitement. But once you pass that milestone, you have the rest of your 30s to look forward to. Sarah Lahbati isn't any different. The actress and Cosmopolitan Philippines January 2024 cover star, who celebrated her 31st birthday on October 9, shared her reflections on friendships, life, and self-worth in her Instagram broadcast channel on October 14.
Sarah Lahbati Reflects On Turning 31
"How beautiful it is to feel contentment from such a pure, simple, and real space," she wrote at the beginning of her heartfelt message. "As I turn 31, I'm overwhelmed by a sweetness that flows from withing. I've come to realize that I don't need anyone but myself, and that no one can save me but me. This independence isn't a burden; it's a liberation."

She also dwells on what having true friendships means to her, especially during this time of her life. "Yet, amidst this self-reliance, I recognize my deep love for love itself—the joy of giving it and the warmth of receiving it," she wrote. "My heart fills with gratitude for the few real friends I've made, friends who have stood by me through my lowest lows and my most beautiful highs. You are treasures in my life, and your presence is a gift I cherish."
Sarah also reflects on how motherhood has become her sanctuary, likening it to the ocean. Just for some context, ICYDK, the mother of two celebrated her birthday with an escape to Palawan. "Being the mom of Zion and Kai fills my days with purpose and joy. We've carved out our paradise in the embrace of the ocean, a sanctuary we always return to."
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"It's in those waves that we find solace, no matter if life is soaring or crashing around us. The ocean is our constant, a reminder that in the ebb and flow of life, we can always find our way back to peace."
The highlight of her birthday reflections, if there was one, is this: "I feel thankful—and proud—that I've shed the need to please anyone but myself. This inner peace, this sense of self-worth, is more valuable than anything the world has to offer. My life, my family, my friends—they are my world and I wouldn't trade it for anything."

She ends the heartfelt message by thanking her fans for their birthday greetings. "Thank you for the wonderful and sweet birthday greetings. they truly don't go unnoticed. Here's to embracing the realness of life, to love, and to all the beautiful moments yet to come. With all my heart, merci. [white heart emoji]"
