Exploring new sexual terrain can be a little intimidating. Our tips will allay your apprehensions.
1. Do It At Your Place
You’ll probably feel more at ease pushing the envelope in your own home. Add some extra ambience by dimming the lights and putting on seductive music.
2. Don Different Lingerie
Wearing especially sexy underwear while dabbling in uncharted territory can help you feel like you’re trying out a new persona.
3. Create A Safe Word
Before you get it on, come up with a word or phrase that means “stop, wait a bit.”
4. Discuss Your Desires Beforehand
Sharing your fantasies with each other prior to the main event prevents any awkward moments and miscommunication. Bear in mind that talking about what you want to do to each other is already erotic.
5. Take Baby Steps
Ease into naughtier play by making small changes—tweak a position or have sex on the kitchen counter instead of the couch.
