It seems like Andrea Brillantes is in her *independent* era!
In a recent vlog with her besties Bea Borres, Danica Ongtengco, and Criza Taa, the actress revealed that her perspective on marriage has shifted.
“Alam niyo naman diba, date to marry ako. Pero ever since [nung incident], di ko nga alam kung magpapakasal pa ako eh?” she said. “Nagkaroon ako ng realization na kaya ko nang mag-isa. Parang ayoko na i-share yung ibang memories ko na dapat core memory ko lang for myself.”
According to the actress, however, she’s not ~*closing*~ herself out from marrying the love of her life, but she has learned to be wise about her decisions. “Hindi na yung tulad ng dati na obsessed [ako] na dapat may partner ako,” she said.
Blythe has experienced her fair share of failed relationships, yet she has gleaned valuable lessons from each one, such as setting boundaries and recognizing *red flags.*
“[Red flag] kapag boy pa siya, hindi pa siya talaga man. I’m looking for a real man, kasi a real man knows how to be content, expresses emotions. Like kaya niya ipagsabay yung logic and emotions,” she shared. “Kasi yung mga lalaki lagi silang logic [lang], kasi feeling nila kapag nilabas nila yung emotions nila, parang ang weak na nila. A real man never cheats, and [he] listens sa gusto ng babae nila."
She ended the conversation by saying that she's officially *done* tolerating ~warning signs~ in relationships.
"Alam niyo diba, ilang beses nang ang daming red flag pero game ako. Kasi lagi kong iniintindi, lagi ko binibigyan ng chance. Talagang na-realize ko na hindi, Blythe, kapag pinakita niya na kung sino siya, alis na tayo.”
Yasss! Way to go, Blythe!
