There's nothing wrong with being single, more so, if you choose *not* to commit to a relationship. Besides, singlehood can ultimately give you the chance to know yourself better and become the best version of yourself.
Timelines, especially for women, as mostly just a social construct. It gives us the notion of being pressured to search for ~The One~ just because we are deemed to do so at a certain age. But the reality is, we don't need to follow everyone's timeline just because they're doing it. Being single, regardless of age, is not something to be worried about.
We have been inspired to embrace singlehood more with the help of some insights from Pinay celebrities who have owned up to becoming the strong and independent women they are—even outside of a romantic relationship. If you feel pressured and bothered by being single, especially on holidays like Valentine's Day or Christmas, remind yourself of these empowering words from celebrities.
6 Pinay Celebrities Share Their Thoughts About Being Single:
1. Jodi Sta. Maria: "Alone does not mean lonely."
Jodi Sta. Maria once declared that she does not mind being single forever. She has always been at the peak of her game, starring in back-to-back projects, and living a good family life with her son, Thirdy.
"I just feel content kung nasaang season ako ng life ko. Hindi ako nagco-complain. Masaya ako," Jodi told Boy Abunda in a January 2020 interview. Being single meant more time for her to grow.
She also said, "Na-eenjoy ko siya (singlehood). Ito 'yung time to grow as an invidivual, discover a lot of things about yourself."
The seasoned actress also made a clear statement about not having to lower her standards just to have a boyfriend. "If nobody comes, it’s okay. You cannot lower your standards just because you are desperate to have a boyfriend. You can’t settle for less because, at the end of the day, you will be the one who’s going to be short-changed," she remarked in a 2016 interview.
ICYDK, Jodi was formerly married to Panfilo Lacson Jr. until 2010. Two years later, Jodi confirmed her relationship with Jolo Revilla, but they would later break up in 2018. She is currently dating Raymart Santiago.
2. Moira Dela Torre: "I like who I am even if it's with no one."
Singer-songwriter Moira Dela Torre had her fair share of heartbreaks. Moira went viral for some time because of her controversial split with her former husband Jason Hernandez in May 2022.
In a 2023 interview with ABS-CBN, the singer declared her happiness with her growth as a single woman. She says she has more time to explore a lot of things these days, and she's cherishing every moment.
"I like who I'm becoming, the person I'm becoming. I'm growing up and there are so many things that I'm learning along the way. And I like where I am, and I like who I am," Moira expressed.
3. Janella Salvador: "I can rely on myself."
Janella Salvador is all about knowing her strength as a woman. Now a mother to her son, Jude, she has unraveled the many wonders of what a mother could do for her child.
"Being a single mom—talagang nilalaban ko ‘yon. [...] At the end of the day, alam kong kaya ko naman siya. As much as I love the people around me who are always there to help me, I always want to know na kaya kong gawin. I can rely on myself na hindi ko kailangang humingi ng tulong sa iba," she declared.
Janella and her former partner Markus Paterson confirmed their breakup in September 2022. Now, they are in a co-parenting setup for their son. Moreover, Janella disclosed in an interview that they are both healing apart as individuals.
4. Bela Padilla: "Ang dami kong blessings para maging malungkot."
Bela Padilla saw singlehood as a way to appreciate life better. Years before she entered her present relationship with Swiss BF Norman Bay, Bela was one of the unattached ladies in the showbiz industry—and most people questioned her choice to be single.
Back when Bela didn't have a boyfriend yet, people were curious if she was really happy because she didn't have a love life. She straight up shut down inquiries and answered,"ang dami kong na-experience last year. Ang dami kong nagawang pelikula tapos nakagawa ako ng soap, tapos pinayagan ni Direk Joyce (Bernal) na script ko ang gamitin. Parang ang dami kong blessings para maging malungkot. Parang sobra naman kung palulungkutin ko pa ang buhay ko," she stated in a 2018 press conference.
At present, Bela is living her best life in London, while flying back to the Philippines for some projects. And indeed, things never change for the hardworking Bela. She's still the career woman we know, except now she's in a lovely relationship!
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5. Denise Laurel: "Where you are right now is where you are supposed to be, so make the most out of it."
Denise Laurel only sees happiness in her journey as a single woman, and a mother at that. For her, she has more time to focus on herself, improve her creativity, and most importantly be with her son, Alejandro.
In a 2022 interview, the host and former actress pointed out how being single means fewer worries in her life. With that, there's no reason for her not to love just being by herself and her son. "Right now I love being by myself. Less stress, less hassle, less worrying about juggling so much of my time. [...] I can go with my own flow, I can take care of my son the way I want to, and I can be myself without any judgment. I’m so happy just being single, ayoko na ng sakit ng ulo!" she stated.
READ: Denise Laurel On Being A Single Mom: 'I'm having the best time of my life'
6. Maxene Magalona: "Your relationship status doesn't define you."
Just weeks after her graceful announcement of her separation from her former husband, Maxene Magalona shared inspiring words on Instagram. She left such an empowering message to people going through a hard time in their lives, whether it's about their relationship status or other hardships in life.
"Whether you're single, taken, married, divorced, or widowed—it doesn't really matter. Your relationship status doesn't define you. Neither does your job title, the amount of money you have in the bank, or the number of followers you have on Instagram," she wrote.
Maxene emphasized the thought of becoming her best self, despite her recent heartbreak. "You are here to thrive, flourish and become your most authentic and BEST self! The one who is kind, fearless, full of energy and love."
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