Men really get off on bringing you ultimate bliss. Then again, sometimes they just want to lie back, enjoy, and have you take care of everything for them. �But they think that if they come right out and ask you to focus just on their pleasure, they�ll seem selfish,� sex therapist Carole Altman, PhD, author of Sex Talk points out. test
- �This one girl I dated loved getting me off orally. Not only would she make moaning sounds while she was doing it, but she�d also look up at me to watch my reactions. If I even tried to reciprocate, she�d push me away until I was done. I loved that my satisfaction was so important to her.� - Pete, 35
- �My ex-girlfriend was a morning person and always wanted to get it on in the AM. But I could never summon enough energy that early. So she used to rub against me until I got hard, slip a condom on me, straddle my hips, and get down to business. All I had to do was lie there.� - Carl, 26
- �Don�t get me wrong, I love making a woman come. But if I�m tired, I might not want to start something I know I won�t be able to finish. This one girl would take care of me when she knew I�d had a long day. She�d say, �Don�t worry about making me come tonight.� Then she�d get on top of me and move really quickly, so I�d get off in about five minutes. It was such a stress relief!� - Alex, 32
- �It�s so great when a chick gives you an out-of-the-blue hand job. Usually, I only get it as part of foreplay. So when a woman just leans over and gets to work while we�re watching TV and it doesn�t lead to anything else�man, it�s so hot. And I�m always willing to return the favor at another point.� - Sherwin, 28
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